I have never had an alien encounter except for every spring when the hosta returns.

I have never had an alien encounter except for every spring when the hosta returns.

In 2021, I took this photo of a peony.

Then I took about 100 more, as a (slightly unhealthy?) obsession began with taking photos of peonies.
In the evening after a summer shower:

In the afternoon sunlight:


In the morning light with this one who was coming on a little too strong:

And, my favorite, choosing a bud to photograph as she blooms, like watching a child grow.
Here are three of my favorites (don’t tell the others).
2021 Piper the Peony – June 2nd was a big day for Piper.






2021 Penelope the Peony – Penny girl looked a little frazzled by the end.




2022 Persephone the Peony – June 6 was her big day.








All the girls in 2021:





The End
Note: The word “tiny” will be overused in this piece of writing.
I had seen fairy garden kits in the stores, so when Annette suggested we make a fairy garden, that’s what I was picturing. She arrived at my home and clarified the situation – we were going to buy a few things but mostly use items found in nature. No kit for us.
To get started, we would need real estate. We bought an oval, galvanized tub, punched some holes in the bottom for drainage and filled it with dirt. It was placed under a large shrub for protection from the elements.

For the house, one worthy of a fairy, we would need an interesting plastic bottle. In our case, an orange juice bottle. We cut a rectangle for the front door (just big enough for a fairy to walk or fly through) and then cut some squares where we thought a fairy would want tiny windows – two side windows and a window above the front door.
Then everything came to a screeching halt when Annette discovered I did not own a hot glue gun. After the shock wore off, we went to buy one.
Upon return, we glued wire mesh on the inside of the bottle for the side windows (screens, of course, in case there are rogue fairies about who would want to break-in). We glued a piece of aluminum foil to the inside of the front window for a reflection effect.
The birch tree in my backyard provided building material. The branches that never matured and fell to the ground proved to be just what she was looking for. She was also thrilled by the potential of the white bark for the siding of the fairy house.
“And the ROOF!” I over-enthusiastically suggested.
“Oh no, the roof will be made of moss,” she replied.
I then realized I was in over my head and probably not as crafty as my mom.
She wanted to make a chair that would go inside the fairy house. This is what she made (approx. two inches tall):

This confirmed that I was definitely not as crafty as my mom. I was in love with this tiny chair and was immediately jealous of the fairy that would get to sit on it.

We put a layer of rocks inside the plastic-bottle-soon-to-be-home-to-a-fairy. Then we tiled the floor with a piece of birch bark.
We looked up what time the sun would go to sleep and set the little string of lights to turn on around then, and then placed the string of lights inside the house. Afterwards, the fairy chair found a cozy home in the corner.
“What more could this fairy ask for?” I pondered.
We began work on the siding, using carefully selected pieces of birch bark. Once glued, we tied string around the bottle to hold the bark in place while it dried.
Then it was time for the roof.
Annette: “We need moss.”
Me: “I can’t remember the last time I saw any moss.”
Annette: “We’ll find it, and then we need to carefully scrape it so that it doesn’t fall apart.”
We took the kids for a walk and, lo and behold, found moss within a few minutes. I talked to it (I know…bear with me) as we gently ripped it from its home, “I know this hurts, but you’re going to help us make a fairy house. Wait until you see the chair.” Ever since we made this fairy house two years ago, I’m always looking for moss and making a mental note when I see it as if I am constructing countless fairy houses.

The moss was ever-so-carefully glued to an aluminum foil pie pan, which was then glued to the cap on the top of the plastic bottle. Lots of gluing and holding in place while they dried and then re-gluing because we thought they were dry and let go but they weren’t dry so we held them for even longer the second time. We used this time to settle on the name for our fairy.
Meadow Moonlight
While on our walk, we had also discovered this, to which Annette said, “Well, this is obviously a tiny chimney.”

“Of course it is,” I replied.
Sticks and stones may break my bones but they can also be glued to the outside of a fairy house to reinforce and decorate.
We also added a tiny window frame to the front window by crossing and gluing two sticks together:

Then we turned over a plastic container (for mushrooms, in this case…not the psychedelic kind just the ones you find at the grocery) and glued the bottom of the plastic-bottle-almost-home-to-a-fairy to it. This is to elevate the fairy house from the dirt and keep it from flooding.

Then we made a few things for Meadow to add to her fairy garden+house once she moved in:
-tiny feather bed (note: if your fairy prefers a firm surface, glue three sticks together for the frame)
-tiny ladder for home repairs
-tiny clothesline for fairy clothes
-tiny but charming front door





Notes were written on tiny pieces of paper to introduce Meadow Moonlight to the children – rolled up like tiny scrolls and placed inside shells because that seemed like one way a fairy might deliver a note.

Then we left it for them to discover.




We went to a garden center and found tiny plants for Meadow’s garden (not pictured, unfortunately, but just imagine cute, tiny plants in the soil of the oval, galvanized tub). Over time, Meadow added her bed, ladder, clothesline, pretty stones, and then some.
I said “we” throughout this piece, but it’s really Annette’s fairy garden+house. I just did as I was told and watched in awe as it came together.
When we finished, we gathered more birch bark and sticks for her to take home so that she can make more fairy houses with her grandchildren. Unfortunately, her box of supplies was discovered in her car by the US border agent and the conversation went something like this:
Agent: “What’s all this stuff for?”
Annette: “For fairy houses.”
Agent: “Houses?”
Annette: “Yeah, for fairies.”
He had to confiscate them, but at least he didn’t lock her up in the loony bin.
Thank you, Mom, for your beautiful creativity – I never would have made this alone and loved watching your vision come to life.
Top of my to do list: trim this plant. Every time I look at it, I feel like it’s flipping me off. I walk away feeling insulted, muttering, “Yeah, I forget to water you, but you don’t have to be rude.”

I saw a fluttering of wings as I walked by the window. Little did I know I was about to meet an owl in my backyard.
Do you see her?

If I didn’t know better, I might have thought my fox sent her.
Listen, there’s this lady who will freak out if you go in her backyard. She will get her camera and take a million photos of you. She’ll even try to talk to you. So if you’ve been down on yourself lately, go see her and it’ll give you a real confidence boost.”
-fox to owl
Except I recently learned that owls prey on foxes, so that conversation was unlikely.
After just a few photos, she started to fly away and I called out,
No, don’t go! I haven’t even introduced myself!”
-lady to owl


Turns out she was actually trying to catch a squirrel – unsuccessful – so she humored me and sat in a tree to be admired. I don’t think I have admired anything as much since the birth of my children (don’t tell my fox I said that). I ran outside without a coat, but I didn’t need one because my heart was beating so fast. I can’t explain it, maybe it’s the intensity in her face.

She unfurled her feathers to then bask in all her glory like the queen she is.


I kept getting closer and closer until she looked at me like this, which stopped me dead in my tracks.

We stared at each other for a while. I would have stood there all day except for hypothermia.

I even hooted at her a couple of times, like an overenthusiastic nitwit but with meaning. I’m not being hard on myself, she confirmed this when she looked at me with an expression that said,
Stop hooting at me. You’re not an owl.”
-owl to lady


I took a video of her because of course I took a video of her. I swear, at about seven seconds in, my heart almost stopped.
We eventually parted ways, but we were never the same again (I’d like to think our meeting had a profound effect on both of us, but probably mostly on me and probably only on me). Thank you, Barred Owl of St-Bruno. Do come again.
We first met in 2019 when I saw him pass through my backyard. He didn’t stop to say hi so I called out, “Oh, so you’re going to play hard to get, huh?”

Things got pretty serious for us in 2022 when we first made eye contact.

But he quickly looked away, turning to a profile position as if to say, “Look how handsome I am from this angle.”

Sometimes he likes to play hide-and-seek with me.

But he mostly uses this steep hill to hunt. I hired a National Geographic reporter (just kidding, it’s me) to add commentary to one of his hunting expeditions. Watch three attempts here:
My mom has a hound dog, and I told her to bring him here immediately. I recently watched a very interesting movie where I learned a fox and a hound can be good friends.
A fox and a squirrel, on the other hand, do not make good friends. His hunting expedition was ultimately successful.


Our friendship had a staggering development on Valentine’s Day when he walked into my yard and we stared at each other for about a minute. Safe to say he is a romantic.

He paid me another visit a few days later, and I can only hope this means I made an impression.

One day, I saw him walk through the back like he was headed somewhere. So before the snow has melted, I followed the direction he took and am fairly certain I found his den. I didn’t get too close, though – I don’t want to be rude and invite myself in. Once the snow does melt, I will be returning to analyze the wood pile because I will obviously be recreating one in my backyard for next winter. I saw him poke around a couple of my wood piles this past winter, but they must not have been to his liking. I will remedy the situation.


I shared his photo on a Facebook group called “View from my window.” He was very popular there, and I loved talking all things fox with people from all over the world.

An artist in Pennsylvania contacted me to ask if she could paint my photo. I am happy to share this painting by Gloria Powell. I think he would be pleased with this portrait. I would love to show him, but I do not want to look like some sort of crazy lady waving my phone around at a fox. Maybe I’ll have one of the kids do it.

Then I was contacted by a publisher in Japan who was releasing a book of a selection of photos from “View from my window,” and they sent me a copy of the book once it was published. I probably would not even be able to walk the streets of Tokyo without people stopping me to ask, “Are you the fox lady? From the book?!”



He has not returned in this winter of 2023, but that doesn’t mean my eyes aren’t always looking for him.